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A: “Listen to me please.”

B: “F*ck You!”

Okay… bad example of an argument.

Sometimes, my friends like to point me out that I like to argue with them. Well, that’s not true. I just like to argue on things. The thing is, I don’t argue for pleasure or something. I only argue when I think something is not right or not the way I think it should be.

Do you think that I like to argue because I like to be the winner?

If you think so, then please really listen to me when I argue with you next time.

Some people, when people start to argue with them, jump to defense mode and start shielding themselves with anything and before you know it, they have withdrawn from the argument with excuses like “Okay I’ll let you win.” This is the type of people I don’t like to talk with.

Is it because they think they are always correct so they don’t need to argue with others?

Or is it because they just don’t want to admit that you are correct?

Or perhaps they are just not good at coming to a conclusion.

When I think I need to correct you on something, I will say it. This is usually where the arguments begin. Or maybe I shouldn’t use the word “correct” because everyone thinks differently and this is why we all argue isn’t it?

Sometimes, I just think that I should voice out something before it’s too late. Have you ever regretted because you did not say something you really wanted to say? I’d rather say it out now and not regret it later because this often happens, to me at least. Sometimes, you won’t even get the chance to say things.

I just don’t want to say “I told you so” later, after something has happened.

I think that arguments don’t need to go hot and become a battlefield. People just need to communicate, talk and then listen!